Here are some thoughts and philosophies from the members of the group.

 

‘The Writing Group allows me the indulgence to revisit and reflect on my life’s ups and downs and adventures; sometimes happy, sometimes sad, sometimes shocking, sometimes puzzling, and also gives me the opportunity to exercise my ‘chuckle muscle’ at the absurdity of it all.’ Cynthia Thompson.

 

‘Our little autobiographical tales – some from childhood and early life – may give our children and grandchildren an insight into ways of life that have now disappeared. These stories of our life events – funny, sad, inspirational, thought-provoking – are a valuable record of the family life of ordinary people. It is rewarding, and sometimes cathartic, to share our stories with each other, and on occasion, with a larger audience.’

 Penny Warwick.

 

Some members of the group have found real solace in their writing:

 

‘The main benefit of my writing is that it has proved to be cathartic and therapeutic. The retrospective process, and putting it down in black and white, has made me deal with the demons of my youth, and has made me the person that I am. I can now look back without anger, but with humour. I have had a very satisfying life, filled with many memories, and despite the loss of my husband, I can now turn myself towards a confident future.’ 

Colette Brindley.

 

Some of us really miss our early lives.

 

‘My Provence - I feel so cheerful when I can return to this paradise. I miss its blue sky, its bouquet of aromas, flavours and colours. I miss the way of life where family and friends meet in a carefree mood. I miss the laughter, the happiness, the free spirit of the people; life is so relaxed and unhurried. Oh, how I wish I was there now!’ Catherine Pywell

 

Some of us think about the lessons we have learned.

 

‘Treasure happy times. It is your ultimate goal to live a life that is happy and fulfilled. The past cannot be changed, so have no regrets; don’t look back – live for each day and each moment – the future is now. You will touch a lot of other people’s lives on your journey – respect that, and always stay true to yourself.’ Gail Green

 

Here is a happy memory from the ‘60’s.

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‘Saturday night at the King’s Hall, Stoke, where we would see in one night, the Beatles, the Hollies, Gerry and the Pacemakers, and Billy J Kramer – all for 7/6d! We bobbed the night away. To this day, my lifelong friend Ann and I still enjoy FUN. We are like a pair of comfy old slippers in each other’s company.’

Mags Johnston

 

And some people don’t seem to have learned anything along the way …